Class 3: Khawaarim al-Muru’ah (Actions That Undermine Noble Character)

Key Takeaways:

1. Examples of Khawaarim (Violators):
   • Lying, backbiting, arrogance, and shameless behavior.
   • Evidence: “O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite one another” (Surah Al-Hujurat 49:12).
2. Consequences of Violating Muru’ah:
   • Loss of respect and trust within the community.
   • Distance from Allah’s mercy, as bad character repels people and harms social bonds.
3. Preventing Khawaarim in Daily Life:
   • Being mindful of actions and their impact on others.
   • Avoiding indulgence in trivial matters that lead to disgrace or shame.

Questions Answered:

1. Is violating Muru’ah a sin?
   • While not all violations are sinful, many are (e.g., lying or backbiting). Actions that degrade dignity may not be direct sins but harm the person’s social standing and morality.
2. What role does self-accountability play in protecting Muru’ah?
   • Regular self-reflection helps identify and correct flaws. Umar ibn al-Khattab said, “Hold yourselves accountable before you are held accountable.”